There is nothing wrong with growing older. In fact, there is something very right about it. We should all be so lucky. There is Growing oldersomething magical about grey hair that makes you instantly and unquestionably wise. It doesn’t matter if you really are wise, people just assume you are. And there is power in that.

With age comes more experience. You know more things,  have seen and done more things, have experienced more seasons of life and know it’s many flavors well. And with that experience, you are in a better position to help someone else.

But growing older is not always a graceful transition. Celebrities make it look like they are aging gracefully, because they spend a lot of money on keeping up the illusion of youth. They seldom tell you about all the aging challenges that come with growing older.

Aging can leave you with less vision, less hearing, and less mobility while giving you the curse of pain in every joint and muscle. No one romanticizes about that aspect of aging. One can only survive it as best they can. If you have loved ones who are not aging gracefully as your favorite octogenarian actress, here are some things you can do to make the way forward a little easier:

Eliminate the Climb

growing olderClimbing mountains is for the young adventurers with healthy knees. The seniors in your life have likely climbed all the mountains they are going to. Those stairs in their home probably feel like mountains some days. At some point, they stop climbing and stay confined to the ground floor.

One thing you can do is to eliminate the climb. The question is not whether you should install a stair lift. Rather, it is a matter of how to choose a stairlift for you and the ones you love. This is definitely not a DIY project. You need a professional who knows what will and won’t work with your staircase. An installer that is licensed and bonded goes without saying.

If your loved ones are confined to the ground floor of their home because the stairs have become one too many mountains to climb, eliminate the climb with a stair lift.

Make It Easier to Get in and out

curbless showers One of the most challenging things some seniors do all day is getting in and out of a chair. Knees and hips protest at the strain. This can be eliminated by providing them with a lift chair that assists in the process of sitting down and getting up. Getting in and out of a car can also be a challenge. There are devices that can help eliminate that challenge as well.

One of the more practical additions to a home is a ramp. A person need not be confined to a wheelchair to appreciate the benefits of a ramp leading into the home as opposed to steps. Inside the house, there is a matter of safely getting in and out of the shower.

From grab bars to curbless showers and walk-in bathtubs to nonslip mats and rugs, there are plenty options for senior-friendly bathrooms. Getting in and out safely is a priority that can easily be met by installing a walk in tub.  Find out the cost of walk in tubs and then do your reach by reading some comparison guides to find out which one is best for you.

Make It Easier to Read

HomePodThe older you get, the smaller print gets. But in the world of smartphones and other electronic devices, it doesn’t have to be that way. No computing devices are more accessible out of the box than Macs, iPhones, iPads, Apple and Watches. You get the idea. Apple has made accessibility a top-level priority for all of their devices, including the HomePod.

Your elderly parents might not know how to explore those settings. While not as extensive, Microsoft, Google, and Amazon also have accessibility features that make their products usable for people with disabilities. Help your parents learn how to adjust the fonts on all their electronic devices to make them easier to read. Sometimes televisions have large type closed caption options.

If they have a device with no accessibility affordances, buy them new devices that cater to their needs. After all, growing older is a gift, not a curse. Make it more graceful by eliminating the climb, making it easier to get in and out, and making everything easier to read.

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    Very touching and inspiring. Indeed, aging should be taken still as a time to grow.

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    I agree with you; aging isn’t what it seems in what we see in celebrities. There are challenges in the way that is difficult to some of us to face. That is why it is important to take steps to help our aging loved ones to transition to this phase gracefully. Successful aging is possible with love and support of our loved ones. Thank you for sharing these tips and ideas.

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