“You don’t always need a plan. Sometimes you just need to breathe, trust, let go, and see what happens.” – Mandy Hale- Author.
Do you desire to drop whatever you are doing right now and start over?
Do you often wish to hit the rewind button of life and fix all your mistakes?
Do you even wonder, “why did it happen to me?” You are not alone!
Many of us unknowingly feel overwhelmed & pitch of hopelessness at some point in life. Be it a toxic relationship or career downfall, you may feel like everything you have done has gone down the drain.
However, instead of dwelling in this vicious loop, you must take steps to awaken your sense of purpose. After all, you are important.
With that being said, below are some powerful ways to break through mundane life and rediscover yourself. So, let’s get started!
- Take Responsibility
First of all, you need to identify the root cause of feeling despair. If you are at fault, don’t indulge in a blame game; instead, take responsibility for your wrongdoing. Remember that you are in charge of your life and choice. Everything you’ll do will play a critical role in your growth and empowerment.
Suppose you are in a fight with your best friend due to miscommunication on your part. In that case, you must make an effort to resolve the misunderstanding and rebuild your bond. It will allow you to understand the sensitivity of human relationships and boost your sense of satisfaction.
- Practice Detachment
Feeling attached to certain people or things is vital to becoming a better version of yourself. However, it also promotes materialism. Desiring that everything HAS TO BE perfect or failure is NOT AN OPTION will only restrict your options to explore the world.
Therefore, you must learn to detach yourself from materialistic things. You may take inspiration from Wyoming Carmelites lifestyle. They follow a strict horarium of prayer and do manual labor. It allows them to feel grateful for their things and live obedient lives.
- Understand Inner Strength
Setbacks & mistakes both an integral part of learning. It allows you to view life from different perspectives and learn from the same. If things are getting out of your control, you must tap into your inner strength and look for possibilities to improve the current situation.
For instance, you can begin praying to learn patience and forgiveness. During uncertain times, it will give you the power to bounce back after taking a small break. Let go of negative inner thoughts, understand where things go wrong, and establish a clear vision.
- Cultivate Self-Love
Last but not least, you must stop self-sabotaging and learn to love yourself. When you prioritize your physical, mental, and spiritual health, overcoming negative emotions becomes easier.
You may join the church, do something for a selfless cause or simply focus on improving your physical health. All these activities will promote mindfulness and gratitude towards life.
To Sum It All Up
When things do not go as planned, our mind begins to assume the worst in the first place. It makes viewing life with a positive outlook nearly impossible. However, you must be stuck to the last ray of hope you hold within and gradually improve your life. Find faith in yourself and the universe. Build a schedule, pray regularly, and follow the constructive path.