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<title>The Circle of Love : Do you love yourself? </title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1890.html</link>
by Paul MauchlineWhy do many people continuously get trapped in the vicious circle of relationships based on infatuation? It is simple: they do not love themselves, and therefore they are willing to forfeit their individuality, including their wants and needs, just to have somebody in their life. </item>

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<title>7 Step Guide to Never Having Sex in Your Marriage</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1871.html</link>
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.Do you want to make sure you get to be angry and complain about no sex? By following my 7-step guide, you can make certain that you will be able to continue to be angry and complain!</item>

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<title>What Does It Mean To Have Integrity?</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1859.html</link>
By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Are you living in integrity with your own soul, or are you operating from "bad faith"? Do you think that you can go against yourself and still find joy? Discover how this is not true.</item>

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<title>7-Step Foolproof Guide to Creating a Terrible Relationship</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1856.html</link>
Margaret Paul, Ph.D. Why randomly create a terrible relationship? By following my 7-step foolproof guide, you can make sure you do it every time!</item>

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<title>Fear of Failure</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1854.html</link>
BY Margaret Paul, Ph.DDoes the fear of failure stop you from doing what you really want to do? Discover how failure is a wonderful learning opportunity rather than an indication of your inadequacy.</item>

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<title>A Major Cause of Relationship Problems</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1850.html</link>
By Margaret Paul, Ph.DAre you in an unhappy relationship? Do you believe that your unhappiness is caused by your partner? Discover how you might be causing your own unhappiness and what you can do about it.</item>

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<title>Everyday Creativity</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1835.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DDo you believe that you are not creative? This is not true! Discover how you can find joy and inner fulfillment through everyday creativity.</item>

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<title>Addiction to Venting</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1826.html</link>
Author: Marget Paul, Ph.DDo you find yourself venting to your friends or allowing your friends to vent to you? Discover how venting is an addiction and doesn    t do the venter or the ventee any good in the long run.</item>

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<title>Holiday Magic</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1823.html</link>
Author:Cindy HamiltonFeeling overwhelmed this Holiday Season? Women really need to take some time to relax each day in order to keep from stressing out over the holidays. This article gives some suggestions on how to bring back the Holiday Magic from your youth. </item>

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<title>What Causes Embarrassment?</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1821.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DIn this article, discover what you tell yourself that causes embarrassment, and what you can tell yourself that leads to self-acceptance.</item>

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<title>Anxiety: A Lack of Reality</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1818.html</link>
Discover how your anxiety may be the result of not accepting how things are and of trying to control things that you cannot control.</item>

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<title>Healthy Guilt, Unhealthy Guilt</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1814.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DSometimes guilt is appropriate and often it isn    t. Discover what causes guilt and the difference between healthy and unhealthy guilt. Guilt is the feeling that results when you tell yourself that you have done something wrong.</item>

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<title>If I am Myself, I will end Up Alone</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1805.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DWhat are you giving up of yourself to protect yourself from ending up alone? What do you believe will happen in your relationships if you take care of yourself instead of take care of others?</item>

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<title>Leaving An Abusive Relationship</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1798.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.D.Are you staying in an abusive relationship thinking that the problems are your fault? Do you think that if you change your partner will change?</item>

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<title>Why Do You Want to</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1771.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.D Many couples claim that their problems stem from a lack of communication. Discover which forms of communication work and which create problems. When partners are having problems, they often say that the problem is communication. What exactly does this mean? What are they trying to communicate?</item>

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<title>Do You Need Others' Approval?</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1761.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DAre you often anxious about how you perform and how you look? Are your good feelings dependent upon how others feel about you? Who is responsible for your self-worth - your or others?</item>

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<title>Are You Stuck in Your Life?</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1737.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DDo you find yourself going around and around in your head, trying to figure things out but never taking the action you need to take? Do you believe if you read enough self-help books and take enough seminars you will find the answer? Are you constantly reading self-help and motivational books yet nothing changes?</item>

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<title>The Power of Kindness in Relationships</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1729.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DWhich is more important to you in your relationships – to be kind or to control? This is the most vital choice you can make regarding the kind of relationship you create.</item>

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<title>Relationships: When to Listen, When to Walk Away</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1715.html</link>
Author:Margaret Paul, Ph.DDo you listen to others even when what they are saying is attacking and blaming? Discover when is it kind to yourself to listen to someone and when is it kind to yourself to walk away.

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<title>Pursuit of Happiness – It’s Easier Than You Think</title>
<link>http://www.todays-woman.net/article1708.html</link>
Author:Joanie WinbergMost people are looking for happiness and long for that true feeling of success, peace and serenity.  It’s what we all strive for in our fast paced lifestyle.  </item>

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